The Simple Act of Pay It Forward

Happiness come in many form, word of encouragement, giving out foods, or monetary help. Let start today to pay it forward in your life.(Picture from

Happiness come in many form, word of encouragement, giving out foods, or monetary help. Let start today to pay it forward. (Picture from

My Believe

Because of my faith in Buddhism, i often put this believe of giving out into practice. Often by “giving” to people out in the street, be it of exchange for their tissue or their musical performance.

When i started to got bigger plot of gold from stock market,  i was inspired(and i still inspired as of now. :)) to “give” out bigger amount. And there was this encounter which i could remember it clearly. I was heading to get my family some breads for next day’s breakfast, where i came across this wheelchair bound male elder (he had his leg amputated, due to diabetic). From his facial appearance, there was no doubt that he lead a tough life, but he still carry a sincere smile.  After i came to him, my body and my mind just naturally come in together to lower myself down, to be same level as him.  When i pull out my “giving” amount, i could see his eye become red and heavy with tear which he trying to hold back. And i feel good in myself that i can act this humble. We chat for a whiles, which i got know that he into his 50, with two kids and they are staying with their relative.

 December – Period of Celebration

We are into the month of December where it is the month of celebration. Flooded with monetary bonus, people are planning for that wonderful holiday, celebrating that White Christmas or simply to purchase that dream car. The list just go on. Whiles we are celebrating, with these happiness around us, should not we also “give” out some happiness to those in need? The happiness come in different form, some kind word to encourage some physical disabled folk, giving out foods to the needy, to help out with their daily activities, not necessary in the monetary form. It is just a simple act of pay it forward to start in your daily life. let it be today! 🙂

 A Simple Act of Caring Creates An Endless Ripples That Come back To You


Look Beyond Wealth

Beyond Wealth

Come across this article,(extract of the article as follow) and finish reading it with a heavy heart. In our purse to be more rich, own more houses and to earn more money, coupling with the fast speed life style we having, we often ignore or forget the main objective behind our action. To earn more money to make up to our children with more material resources where we just want to cover our guilty of not spending enough time with them? Or want to provide a better life for our parent, working all day long and can only meet them up during Chinese Reunion Dinner, but where just a weekly call to them is what they need the most? The list just go on.

What is your objectives?

Time to revisit the reason behind your motivation to be rich, successful, and get in touch with your real self and fine tuned your action.
Time to know your true reason, not some general reason like giving your parent a better life and use the excuse make us look holy.
And it’s times for you to look beyond wealth and appreciate those ugly beauty around you.

It is important for you to look beyond wealth, and unearth the goodness in everything. Take time to appreciate everything around you and plus spend quality time with your loves one.

Everyone Was Warned Not To Touch Him, But This Guy Did

Everyone in the apartment complex i lived in knew who ugly was. Ugly was the resident tomcat.

Ugly loved three things in this world: fighting, eating garbage, and shall we say, love. The combination of these things combined with a life spent outside had their effect on Ugly.

To start with, he had only one eye, and where the other should have been was a gaping hole. He was also missing his ear on the same side, his left foot has appeared to have been badly broken at one time, and had healed at an unnatural angle, making him look like he was always turning the corner. His tail has long since been lost, leaving only the smallest stub, which he would constantly jerk and twitch. Ugly would have been a dark gray tabby striped-type, except for the sores covering his head, neck, even his shoulders with thick, yellowing scabs.

Every time someone saw Ugly there was the same reaction. “That’s one UGLY cat!!”
All the children were warned not to touch him, the adults threw rocks at him, hosed him down squirted him when he tried to come in their homes, or shut his paws in the doors when he would not leave.

Ugly always had the same reaction. If you turned the hose on him, he would stand there, getting soaked until you gave up and quit. if you threw things at him, he would curl his lanky body around feet in forgiveness. Whenever he spied children, he would come running meowing frantically and bump his head against their hands, begging for their love. if you ever pick him up, he would immediately begin suckling on your shirt, earrings, whatever he could find.

One day Ugly shared his love with the neighbours huskies. They did not respond with kindness, and Ugly was badly mauled. From my apartment i could hear his screams, and i tried to rush to his aid. By the time, i got to where he was laying, it was apparent Ugly’s sad life was almost at an end.

Ugly lay in a wet circle, his back legs and lower back twisted grossly out of shape, a gaping tear in the white strip of fur that ran down his front. As i picked him up and tried to carry him home i could hear him wheezing and gasping, and could feel him struggling. I must be hurting him terribly i thought.

Then i felt a familiar tugging, sucking sensation on my ear – Ugly, in so much pain, suffering and obviously dying was trying to suckle my ear. I pulled him closer to me, and he bumped the palm of hand with his head, then he turned his one golden eye towards me, and i could hear the distinct sound of purring. Even in the greatest pain, that ugly battled-scarred cat was asking only for a little affection, perhaps some compassion.

At the moment i though Ugly was the most beautiful, loving creature i had ever seen. Never once did he try to bite or scratch me, or even try to get away from me, or struggle in any way. Ugly just looked up at me completely trusting in me to relieve his pain.

Ugly died in my arms before i could get inside, but i sat and held him for a long tie afterwards, thinking about how one scarred, deformed little stray could so alter my opinion about what it means to have true pureness of spirit, to love so totally and truly. Ugly taught me more about giving and compassion than a thousand books, lectures, or talk show. Specials ever could, and for that i will always be thankful. He had been scarred for the outside, but i was scarred on the inside, and it was time for me to move on and learn to love truly and deeply. To give my total to those i cared for.

Many people want to be richer, more successful, well liked, beautiful, but for me, i will always try to be Ugly.

Role of Spiritual Wellness when building your Pillar.

Role of Spiritual Wellness when building your Pillar.

Yesterday i had a wonderfully & delighting discussion with my friend over the challenging of building Wealth and being Spiritually Strpathong at the same time. I can understand his view of point as it is total conflicting between Wealth and Spiritual.

During my discussion with him, i can sense his strong Spiritually well being, and i glad to have such a strong fellow mate in my circle of life.

To improve or to enhance your current wealth status  will be like defining a destination for your ship to  dock at. But having a strong Spiritually well being, that will define the path of how you will arrive. And what does Spiritually Strong (Spiritual Wellness) mean to me? It’s a set of guideline to enable me to think and act beyond the current scope.

For example, using your wealth status or inner circle of friends to influence more people to join in your good cause. To leverage on more people to build a bigger and better scale of the good cause that you want to have.

Of course this just one way out of the countless way. But most important to develop your Spiritually Well Being in order guide you well during the process of finding your path to your destination!

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